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September 21, 2009

Chapter Sep 2009

The Wedding Date is getting nearer and nearer, however, i feel that the excitment is not there. Instead is stress being filled between both of us? Does this happen to every couple? Or it is because we didnt have much saving that caused the problems? Or it is becuase my expectation on the wedding too high? I believe you gals agreed with me, that Wedding is once a life time (unless in the future i got divorce, then that's not counted) haha...

Recently, my Hubby dont know what happen, he didnt really give me a Dam anymore... Haix.. Is it becuase when a relationship steps into the 2nd or 3rd year, the feeling starts to be soured or changed?? Or am i thinking too much? i understand that he is facing alot of Stress, and he think all the problems lies with him, cause he didnt have the ability to earn money to provide me a gd living.. But i think is both of our Fault, as we didnt really put in our 100% heart to work hard and strive for our future.. I hope is not too late for us now to work hard together.. Hubby, What do you think?

Anyway, i hope my Plan C or B can work out, at least if Money can solve the problem, we wont be so Headache le.. Haha... Then we will still have some Money to plan for other things too.. Right?

August 30, 2009

Chapter Aug 2 2009

Dear Friends,

How's life for all of you? I am back in blogging today as i am off from work today.. Haha... Recently, i am very very addicted to the applications in the Facebook.. Cham le.. Always play game till sleep very late.. Then my Hubby is not very Happy with that.. Cause because of Game, he feel that i do not have time to Pei Him.. Sound so funny right? Normally is Girls complaint Guy play game no time to Pei them, but mine is the opposite..

This coming Month September will be a busy month for me as i have plans to work very very hard to clear whatever Goals i Have and the Amount of Income i wanna Have for this year is to have next Year gets $10 000 per month.. So i need not to worry about my Expenses, like House Loan, Car Loan, Wedding Reception etc... Anybody have others comment? I dont know whether do i need so much but just some buffer... Haha...

Recently, i read an article about the Medical Insurance dated on Last Sunday on Today, The editor wrote that With a comprehensive Hospital Shield plan, the Hospital Bill will be Covered, Hence to complment the Hospital Bill is the Critical Ilness Plan, with the coverage of $100 000 or more.

Another Article is stating that Singaporean is under Insured, however, most of them are not aware of the Coverage they need.. Based on the Article, for a person need at least $465 000 of Insurance. Is that true that people need so much coverage? Actually very easy, example, for a person earns $2500 a month, and out of the salary, his/her family expesnses, is about $1500 a month, $18 000 a year, if without taking in consider inflation, a basic calculation, using $18 000 a year, if he/she wans to let their family to have at least for 10 yrs of this amount, which means he /she must have at least of $180 000 of Death Coverage. Disclaimer: i am not here to sell you guys anything, but rather just to share on my experiences and knowledge on this.. Haha.. Hao Lian abit.. :P

Here's my blogging. hope to update you guys soon more abt the Financial Information.

August 23, 2009

Chapter Aug 1 2009

Dear Friends,

sorry for the So Long Never update of my blogs.. Haha... Recently been quite occupied with my work therefore never really gets to update my blog... But getting busy with work is good as when ones gets occupied with stuff you wont have time to think of others thing... haha...

I am really very sorry to Sze as i didnt get to know about Jerry's death until that day when you spoke out. Anyway i know Jerry is your Best Friend and no ones could replace her.

I am really very Happy for my Friend whom recently got herself settled down with a very perfect guy.. :p Relationship sometimes can seem to be like riding a RollerCoaster.. And if you managed to survive thru the Bump. the relationship will be stronger and the bond between each other will be greater..

Recently i realise something, why people can gets to be angry of their BF or GF when he or she tend to do something wrong... is because they cared about them more than other people.. You can say that is an excuse, however it is the truth.. Ask yourself if someone whom you dont cared, will his or her mistake irritiate you so easy?? Haha..

Last Sunday, i went to temple to pay offers to my Grandmum and GrandFather... so long never gets to see my cousin, i feel sorry for my uncle as my cousin is already 26 yrs old, however, he tend to do nothing about his own future? No Saving, No Insurance and never really take care of his own health... Then every month, he still have to borrow money from my uncle.. Haiz... This makes my uncle so worried about him, although what my cousin says or do hurts him alot..

Recently for me, i lead a very busy lifestyle as after the course attended last month give me this idea.. The power of being a Nowist... Cause what i have now is only now, i do not hold the time tommorrow, and in order to have the time now is to be a Nowist.. So do not hesitate to tell those people whom you loved, I LOVE YOU as you might not know whether do you have the chance to tell them tommorrow.. Sound so Drama right? But actually this is how i FEEL.. To all my Friends, I LOVE YOU... THANKS YOU!!!

Haiyo, time really passes very fast, now is already going to be the end of 2009.. And i am getting Married Next Year, so excited and yet so sorry for my Dear Hubby..
I didn't really aware that i have input quite alot of Stress to him and this make him feel mentally and physically tired as he needed to work from Morning till Night, go Canvessing and Going appointment... Perhaps my expectation is too high or i am too demanding... But i really hope you will be as Happy as before you met me... And your life wont get changed. Actually what i hoped for is to work hard together so we can build our own future together. Do hope you understand!!!

Anyway i am still thinking whether to held any celebration for my next year ROM or i just sign my name and eats KFC... haha... Any suggestion?? do leave in the Tag Box...

June 21, 2009

Mid of the year 2009

Dearest Friends, I have been back in blogging again... Haha... Missed my entry?? Recently lots of things ran thru my mind, and i finally have a clearer picture of what i want...

My big day was coming soon in Next year... Although it was just a ROM... however, i am doing some research on the venue to held.. alot of things to prepare le.. Haiz...
So Jie mei meng, i might nid some of you guys help to advise wor...

Some updates about my job... currently my recruitment was quite successful and i have 2 tu di under me... haha... Both of them was doing well, however, sometime do give me some headache also.. Perhap this is the retribution ba... cos i used to do this to James too... Haha...

Anyway i think better end my blogging here... keep updated soon... No worries...

April 20, 2009

Chapter April 2009

All Gals, been such a long time since i last blog.. Haha... Been getting on busy with my work... Life isnt getting any simple or easy for me as I been busy doing my recruitment, training and getting on my services on my clients..

Things isnt getting more easy between my another half and me.. Recently we are more and more tense up.. we always argue due to our work... Haiz... Maybe is true that both couples shouldnt work together... Is time to do some sacrifice to do some resolve in our relationship?? Or must get used to the conflict between couples while working together? i understand, he is stress, but so do i.. although i didnt say it out, but i am also very stress.. i also want both of us to have a good life in the future..

In Feb, we went to Taiwan, together with Sze and Eddie... The trip indeed is fun and we do enjoy ourself there.. regardless of the Food, weather (especially is the nicest, not like Singapore so Hot), Pretty Babes and also alot of Shopping Items... :P attached photos below for all of you to view... Although the trips is rather short, however, it is meaningful.. we spend quite a reasonable sum of money over there... I really like the service over there.. Unlike Singapore, i think we Singaporean must really learn about it.. Is really a good attitude all Sales executive should have..

Now is already April, and by next week, i will be going to Malaysia for Training... Dont miss me yeah... haha... This month end, our agency will be having a trip to Taiwan, but i dont think i can qualify for that.. didnt manage to work hard for this month... Anyway nvm, regardless of trip or money, i shall work hard for this year.. and will be able to clear my Perth trip next year.. In yr 2010, will i be Mrs Law? or will there be any changing in plan? Till now i cant confirm yet... especially in the situation now..