Dearies, i am finally back in blogging..IN this brand new year, i have also stepped into a brand new stage of life. I am not sure whether was it i am too immature or too mature.
I just ROM on 23rd Jan, and till now was only for 2 weeks, and many unhappiness have evolved between us. Perhaps that in my home, there wasnt any privacy as we are sharing the room with my sister. Haiyo.. perhaps in the first place, we shouldnt get married so fast until when we have a home that belong to us. In my parents' eyes, we arent consider married yet as we haven held a traditional wedding yet.
Oh. God can anyone tell me what to do? We are supposed to be in a Happy mood and right now everything is like so ERmmm... Haiz. If i was born to be a rich person, then i wont need to worry about anything. or if my parent bought a 4 room instead, such arguement wont happen.
What shall i do? Rent a room outside just to satisfy his Privacy Dream?? I simply dun understand why he wans privacy so much?? Couldnt he just wait till we got our flat then he talk about privacy?? Dont he understand that instead of using the money paid in the rental, why cant he used it to employ a telemarketers such as to leverage on others' ppl time to do our Biz big? How should i put this across to him and let him know?
Perhaps we are 2 very stubborn person, but i am really very tired to argue with him on the same topic.. everything see him unhappy sure because of this issue.
February 07, 2010
November 17, 2009
Chapter Nov 2009 2
Today is already the mid of Nov, and 2 more months is going to be my ROM date. Sound funny, actually i am not very excited towards it. The kind of tension is really getting very strong between me and my Hubby.
To add the salt into it, is my parents, keep asking money from me.. Why is everyone asking $$$ in my family?? Does my exist only because of $$$?? Then in that case, what for i am in this world?? Doesn't Family should show care and concern on each other? Didnt they even care about my Wedding Next year?? No, they didnt even bother or even asked on how's the preparation of our wedding??
Because of Money issue, we had a dispute... i understand that Hubby is stress with the work and our wedding next year, but isnt me stress with it too?? I feel so useless in the sense, i couldnt help much in the saving as my parents are addicted to gamble, and they spend every single cents in it... Didnt they spare a thought of themselves, how much money do i have for them?? And do they want me to stay single forever and gave them every single cents for gamble in 4D? How on god can help me?? If died can solved every single problems then i am willing to do that... So that my insurance compensation can give them to spend on their 4D and TOTO... Will they make them more Happy??
To add the salt into it, is my parents, keep asking money from me.. Why is everyone asking $$$ in my family?? Does my exist only because of $$$?? Then in that case, what for i am in this world?? Doesn't Family should show care and concern on each other? Didnt they even care about my Wedding Next year?? No, they didnt even bother or even asked on how's the preparation of our wedding??
Because of Money issue, we had a dispute... i understand that Hubby is stress with the work and our wedding next year, but isnt me stress with it too?? I feel so useless in the sense, i couldnt help much in the saving as my parents are addicted to gamble, and they spend every single cents in it... Didnt they spare a thought of themselves, how much money do i have for them?? And do they want me to stay single forever and gave them every single cents for gamble in 4D? How on god can help me?? If died can solved every single problems then i am willing to do that... So that my insurance compensation can give them to spend on their 4D and TOTO... Will they make them more Happy??
November 02, 2009
Chapter Nov 2009
Wow today is 2nd Nov, there will be another 2 months more to my ROM.. Getting kinda excited and worried.. The feeling is kind of so messy... Is it normal or abnormal? I also not very sure of it..
Kind of missed the SingleHood of me, where you need not to be reponsible to whoever and commit to whoever.. But the funny part is that when you are single, you might wished to have somebody to be by your side and take care of you.. Haha...
Of cause, i am not saying My Dear not good.. but somehow seems like is he too good for me.. I didnt do anything to make him Happy before... Always make him Angry... Sometime i really feel bad to him.. And i wanna treasure the every moment with him... Sound so touching?? Haha..
We tend to see different people in our each passing day.. Some are meant to stay permanently and adds Bright Colours to your Life Story, Some are meant to be temporaily and adds Dark Colours to your Life Story, Some are meant to know but not meant to be together... Each of us have different Roles to Act in our Daily Lives.. Agreed?
Last Gathering with my Secondary Friends indeed is a Enjoying one despite some Conversation cannnot be talked with the presence of my Hubby... Truly very Happy that we can meet again, and hope 10 yrs or 20 yrs dwn the road we still can be like this.. Haha...
Kind of missed the SingleHood of me, where you need not to be reponsible to whoever and commit to whoever.. But the funny part is that when you are single, you might wished to have somebody to be by your side and take care of you.. Haha...
Of cause, i am not saying My Dear not good.. but somehow seems like is he too good for me.. I didnt do anything to make him Happy before... Always make him Angry... Sometime i really feel bad to him.. And i wanna treasure the every moment with him... Sound so touching?? Haha..
We tend to see different people in our each passing day.. Some are meant to stay permanently and adds Bright Colours to your Life Story, Some are meant to be temporaily and adds Dark Colours to your Life Story, Some are meant to know but not meant to be together... Each of us have different Roles to Act in our Daily Lives.. Agreed?
Last Gathering with my Secondary Friends indeed is a Enjoying one despite some Conversation cannnot be talked with the presence of my Hubby... Truly very Happy that we can meet again, and hope 10 yrs or 20 yrs dwn the road we still can be like this.. Haha...
September 21, 2009
Chapter Sep 2009
The Wedding Date is getting nearer and nearer, however, i feel that the excitment is not there. Instead is stress being filled between both of us? Does this happen to every couple? Or it is because we didnt have much saving that caused the problems? Or it is becuase my expectation on the wedding too high? I believe you gals agreed with me, that Wedding is once a life time (unless in the future i got divorce, then that's not counted) haha...
Recently, my Hubby dont know what happen, he didnt really give me a Dam anymore... Haix.. Is it becuase when a relationship steps into the 2nd or 3rd year, the feeling starts to be soured or changed?? Or am i thinking too much? i understand that he is facing alot of Stress, and he think all the problems lies with him, cause he didnt have the ability to earn money to provide me a gd living.. But i think is both of our Fault, as we didnt really put in our 100% heart to work hard and strive for our future.. I hope is not too late for us now to work hard together.. Hubby, What do you think?
Anyway, i hope my Plan C or B can work out, at least if Money can solve the problem, we wont be so Headache le.. Haha... Then we will still have some Money to plan for other things too.. Right?
Recently, my Hubby dont know what happen, he didnt really give me a Dam anymore... Haix.. Is it becuase when a relationship steps into the 2nd or 3rd year, the feeling starts to be soured or changed?? Or am i thinking too much? i understand that he is facing alot of Stress, and he think all the problems lies with him, cause he didnt have the ability to earn money to provide me a gd living.. But i think is both of our Fault, as we didnt really put in our 100% heart to work hard and strive for our future.. I hope is not too late for us now to work hard together.. Hubby, What do you think?
Anyway, i hope my Plan C or B can work out, at least if Money can solve the problem, we wont be so Headache le.. Haha... Then we will still have some Money to plan for other things too.. Right?
August 30, 2009
Chapter Aug 2 2009
Dear Friends,
How's life for all of you? I am back in blogging today as i am off from work today.. Haha... Recently, i am very very addicted to the applications in the Facebook.. Cham le.. Always play game till sleep very late.. Then my Hubby is not very Happy with that.. Cause because of Game, he feel that i do not have time to Pei Him.. Sound so funny right? Normally is Girls complaint Guy play game no time to Pei them, but mine is the opposite..
This coming Month September will be a busy month for me as i have plans to work very very hard to clear whatever Goals i Have and the Amount of Income i wanna Have for this year is to have next Year gets $10 000 per month.. So i need not to worry about my Expenses, like House Loan, Car Loan, Wedding Reception etc... Anybody have others comment? I dont know whether do i need so much but just some buffer... Haha...
Recently, i read an article about the Medical Insurance dated on Last Sunday on Today, The editor wrote that With a comprehensive Hospital Shield plan, the Hospital Bill will be Covered, Hence to complment the Hospital Bill is the Critical Ilness Plan, with the coverage of $100 000 or more.
Another Article is stating that Singaporean is under Insured, however, most of them are not aware of the Coverage they need.. Based on the Article, for a person need at least $465 000 of Insurance. Is that true that people need so much coverage? Actually very easy, example, for a person earns $2500 a month, and out of the salary, his/her family expesnses, is about $1500 a month, $18 000 a year, if without taking in consider inflation, a basic calculation, using $18 000 a year, if he/she wans to let their family to have at least for 10 yrs of this amount, which means he /she must have at least of $180 000 of Death Coverage. Disclaimer: i am not here to sell you guys anything, but rather just to share on my experiences and knowledge on this.. Haha.. Hao Lian abit.. :P
Here's my blogging. hope to update you guys soon more abt the Financial Information.
How's life for all of you? I am back in blogging today as i am off from work today.. Haha... Recently, i am very very addicted to the applications in the Facebook.. Cham le.. Always play game till sleep very late.. Then my Hubby is not very Happy with that.. Cause because of Game, he feel that i do not have time to Pei Him.. Sound so funny right? Normally is Girls complaint Guy play game no time to Pei them, but mine is the opposite..
This coming Month September will be a busy month for me as i have plans to work very very hard to clear whatever Goals i Have and the Amount of Income i wanna Have for this year is to have next Year gets $10 000 per month.. So i need not to worry about my Expenses, like House Loan, Car Loan, Wedding Reception etc... Anybody have others comment? I dont know whether do i need so much but just some buffer... Haha...
Recently, i read an article about the Medical Insurance dated on Last Sunday on Today, The editor wrote that With a comprehensive Hospital Shield plan, the Hospital Bill will be Covered, Hence to complment the Hospital Bill is the Critical Ilness Plan, with the coverage of $100 000 or more.
Another Article is stating that Singaporean is under Insured, however, most of them are not aware of the Coverage they need.. Based on the Article, for a person need at least $465 000 of Insurance. Is that true that people need so much coverage? Actually very easy, example, for a person earns $2500 a month, and out of the salary, his/her family expesnses, is about $1500 a month, $18 000 a year, if without taking in consider inflation, a basic calculation, using $18 000 a year, if he/she wans to let their family to have at least for 10 yrs of this amount, which means he /she must have at least of $180 000 of Death Coverage. Disclaimer: i am not here to sell you guys anything, but rather just to share on my experiences and knowledge on this.. Haha.. Hao Lian abit.. :P
Here's my blogging. hope to update you guys soon more abt the Financial Information.
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